Could someone explain this to me like I am five? I am new and trying to learn.

I disagree. We have seen this story before and it always ends the same way.

Vouching for OP. We did a successful trade last month, no issues.

Bumping this — would love to see more responses from devs.

The whitepaper actually addresses this in section 4. Worth a re-read.

Merci pour le partage.

I had the same issue and solved it by upgrading my node to the latest version.

Bumping this — would love to see more responses from devs.

Saved. I will reference this thread next time someone asks me the same question.

Salud comunidad! En mi experiencia esto funciona muy bien.